I am just a regular girl trying to make it in a world of confusion. I believe in love, I believe in fate, and signs and in dancing in the rain. I believe that things happen for a reason, and sometimes it takes years to figure that reason out. I am a mother, stepmother, wife, doula, lactation counselor, writer, social justice activist, mother of a child with selective mutism, a vegetarian & I drive a standard car….. I am Ruby.